The Daily Telegraph offers nine suggestions to improve your relationships in the New Year. |
英國《每日電訊報》為我們在新的一年里改善人際關(guān)系提供了9條建議。? |
1. Take time to work out your priorities. Decide who is most important to you and make sure they get the attention they need. |
1. 花點時間分出個輕重緩急。找出對你來說最重要的人或事,確保給予他們足夠的關(guān)注。 |
2. Increase the amount of "face-to-face" time with your partner. |
2. 增加和別人面對面交談的時間。 |
3. Limit your criticisms. |
3. 盡量少批評別人。 |
4. Practise being a good listener. |
4. 試著成為一個好的聆聽者。 |
5. Take responsibility for your actions. |
5. 對自己的行為負(fù)責(zé)。 |
6. Be prepared to say "I'm sorry" and mean it. |
6. 時刻準(zhǔn)備好說“對不起”,并且要真誠。 |
7. Show your appreciation. |
7. 不吝嗇你的贊美。 |
8. Take the initiative. If you are single and want to go on a date, ask someone out. |
8. 采取主動。如果單身的你想要約會,那就邀請對方出來。 |
9. Let "no" mean "no". Too many relationships suffer because people cannot say "no" to their partners. Saying "no" more often could be this year's main resolution. |
9. 勇敢地說“不”。很多關(guān)系走入困境都是因為他們不會拒絕。多說一些“不”,可能就是你今年走出困境的法寶。
(China.org.cn) |